After doing this, your girlfriend will be more intensely attracted to you, will want to be closer to you AND will be less motivated to have a “wandering eye.”
So what is this special trick?
I’ll tell you about it in a moment, but first I want to help you take a look at the life of a typical young woman in college…
The average girl in college is STUCK.
Yes it’s correct. Most girls in their 20s, especially if they are attractive, are told what to do by almost everyone they meet.
Let’s start with his parents. Dad feels very insecure about sending his baby to school. One way or another, he wants to make sure that his girl is safe and protected. Every dad may have a different approach, but most dads are probably trying to tell their daughters what to do all the time. If you’re not telling your daughter what to do, you’re silently disapproving of what her daughter is doing, and she knows it.
A college girl’s friends are extremely important to her. She is often constrained by her friends’ expectations of her, who expect her to act a certain way at certain times.
College girls also have to deal with the expectations of their boyfriends. It’s also EXTREMELY common to see attractive girls with boyfriends who are a little too jealous and controlling. So now they always have to deal with that too.
Like I said, college girls are STUCK. Everywhere you look, someone is trying to tell you how to act. That is exactly why when you ENCOURAGE HER TO BE INDEPENDENT, she will love you for it.
Thats the secret. Encourage her to be independent. Encouraging her to be independent also shows that YOU are independent. It makes you more attractive to her. When you’re needy and clingy, he likes you less and less. Need is death to attraction. When you do the opposite, as simple as it may seem, she will see you in a VERY unique way, because no one else is telling her that she is independent. Jealousy is such a bad quality. It’s so bad, being jealous actually INCREASES the likelihood that she’ll cheat on you. Don’t be jealous, encourage their independence. She will start to think of you as “one in a million” because you really are.
He’ll also appreciate having the chance to spread his wings a bit.
The next time she wants to have a girls’ night out, tell her to have fun! In fact, suggest it. If she wants to go do something or try something new, be the person who supports her. You can even playfully help her find another guy so she can get your back off her! She just remembers when you do this, she finds the nerdiest guy in the crowd and says, “he looks like your guy!”. Usually she will laugh. Try it. She go chat with your girl right now and make her talk about what she wants to do that she hasn’t done yet. Then she go and tell him to do it! Give strong words of encouragement. You could say, “Honey, I see so much potential in you that you’d probably be surprised. When you talk about doing X, I’m honestly surprised you haven’t done it yet because I know you’re so much more capable than that… Do it! I know you can handle it…”