However, it will be difficult to save your relationship after an affair.

The discomfort of discovering that your partner has been unfaithful is tremendous and you have to face it.

You can bounce back and go on to rebuild trust after infidelity and ultimately have a fully healed relationship.

You need to consider a few things for the recovery of the affair if you feel that both of you are truly right for each other.

– They may have spent years growing further apart, but do they still love each other?

– Take an inventory of all the important things you love about your partner.

– Then consider all the things that irritate you.

– The first checklist should of course be longer.

Consider things like: Do you enjoy being with your partner? Does he/she make you laugh and have a warm feeling?

You may want to consider whether you share the same goals, objectives, and core values, perhaps views on parenting.

Similar and intentions will help carry a relationship through the difficult times that concern all couples, and on your way to save a marriage after infidelity.

Is your relationship based on equity?

I mean, do you and your spouse see each other as respecting each other and feel equal in every way, including the intimacy you share?

If you are addressing these concerns favorably, you have a fantastic opportunity to stay married after the affair while you heal and develop a stronger bond.

To avoid another deal with affair recovery and post-adventure healing, you need to look into the aspects that led them to even have cheating thoughts.

– Were you ignoring him?

Possibly unknowingly, however, it is often our better halves that are left at the bottom of the pile while we deal with other, more pressing circumstances.

You probably cannot succeed in saving a marriage after infidelity alone without professional help.

If only to provide you with someone who will stay with you towards your objectives and goals while you resolve your concerns.

Has your partner been cheated on before?

Earlier, I talked more about surviving an affair and finding some kind of friendly support to help you make decisions: Is leaving a relationship the answer, or should you stay?

Yes, someone who cares about each of you individually and wants relationship healing to be successful.

It would be virtually impossible for a good friend or family member to fill this role.

Again, they are rare, if he or she has, then I am overly concerned about the chances that they will stay clean and not be attracted to cheating.

If this is your first time, you might consider that as humans we are ego based, which is based on fear and doubt, oftentimes low self esteem kicks in and we as humans make mistakes.

What I mean is, don’t be too quick to believe that it will happen again automatically.

Tea race in miracles he states: “Healing thus becomes a lesson in understanding, and the more you practice it, the better teacher and student you become.”

To start saving a marriage after infidelity, you will need to take things gradually and heal slowly, and learn to know yourself again.

Try to let go of the guilt and don’t mix the cheating episode into every argument, because if you both want this to work, you have to put all your effort into saving it.

Your shared trust has likely been shaken, so you need to deal with this.

The cheating partner will need to understand that the other person will want to know where they are and who they are with.

You, as the other partner, must work on being more trusting or you will never heal the relationship after an affair.

It will surely not be easy, but you can succeed in staying married after infidelity and being sincere and happy with each other once again.

To cheat-proof your relationship, it’s best to take a look at all the factors that made your spouse cheat so it never happens again.

(Keep in mind that there is a lot of wonderful and useful content on the net that has provided many decision making tips for reconnecting, getting back with an ex, or moving on in life, so don’t be ashamed to take a look at all that’s available today).

To success in love and in life!