Playing hard to get isn’t a game, it’s just a woman living a full life who puts herself and her needs first. This self-assured woman would never dream of putting anything on hold for a man. She is not the woman who waves her arms at the cry of “pick me, pick me.” She is the woman who makes her own decisions. This says “I’m sure.” The best way to kill a man’s attraction is to be the opposite of confident, needy and clingy. Hard to come by is a positive attitude that inspires a man to give himself up to be with you.
A woman who is hard to get but easy to be with has shown a man that she is happy with him but can be just as happy without having anything to do with him. This intrigues him and is when he doesn’t leave his side. Hard-to-get women don’t wait by the phone, don’t change plans to fit your schedule, don’t accept late-night calls or last-minute appointments. They have their limits and standards set and this earns his respect. She is happy in her life and a happy woman is really very sexy.
Think of it like you are the prize. There are different types of prizes. There are the ones in the box of crackers. That’s the easy prize. All they have to do to get it is open the box and drop it and there is the prize. What about this award? Usually it gets thrown in the trash or discarded somewhere and forgotten about. If they come across this prize later down the road, there’s a good chance they won’t even remember where it came from. That’s easy, don’t play hard to get at all.
Then there’s the prize he had to work for. Your brand new BMW, or Sports Car. He had to work long hours and save for years for this award. What do you do with this? He doesn’t let anyone else drive it, he keeps it clean and under his garage, he takes pictures of it and treats it with love because he values it, he had to work for it.
So playing rough is really easy. Just live a wonderful life, put yourself first and he will follow. As long as you see yourself as the prize, he will see you that way too and enjoy going the extra mile, after all, he wants the prize.