We all have one thing or another, which is more valuable to our neighbor. But due to ignorance, our ego blinds us and we refuse to see what is right in front of us. We tend to place little or no value on the things and people we care about.
A man who believes in having affairs with whoever he wants lacks courage and has little to no idea how to maintain a home. No matter how much love and respect his wife gave him, the dark and selfish sides of him always resurface from his shell. You find it difficult to keep your relationship/marriage under control.
A woman who believes in luxury would have a hard time clinging to a man who has nothing. She is blinded by material things and she doesn’t know genuine love, when a sincere guy approaches her. Her main focus would be on her pocket, because and the businesses he is involved in. She is full of pride and she would stop at nothing to get a good job with a great salary. She looks down on all eligible bachelors who have little going for her. She only looks for guys of her caliber.
Children, on the other hand, are a blessing from God, they help build a home. Because without the presence of children in a home, a couple would surely get tired of how calm and normal their life is. Children born of love serve as a reminder of why the couple is upset. They are seen as a “symbol of the purest love”.
Most people have a wonderful home filled with lots of love and appreciate what they have. While others who have a beautiful house, do not know the value or worth of a house. They still have no idea why they got married, have children and a wife/husband. Your thoughts are vague and filled with many unpleasant desires.
According to a popular saying, “Everything happens for a reason”. Take a deep breath and look around you, examine the lifestyle of those around you. I’m pretty sure you’ll be surprised how tightly they hold on to what they have and speak highly of it wherever they go. There are also others who don’t mind doing almost anything to have a family, to be in love, and to be loved in return.
You are not in the hospital, suffering, with no place to lay your head, jobless, praying for a life partner, seeking God’s face for a child. But rather, things are working out in your favor. Wouldn’t it be nice to be kind and gentle with your loved ones? Do you consider a situation where you are speechless when they are no longer by your side?
We keep saying, “Life is short.” But how many actually get into their heads? Remember, when you place little or no value on things in your life, someone will surely take over one day. By then it would be too late to “cry over spilled milk.” So why wait until you lose what brings you happiness due to pride and foolish beliefs?