If you are an attractive and independent woman with plenty of dating opportunities, how do you get that special man to come after you with all his might and power? If you’re worth keeping and not just one of the women he sleeps with, how do you prepare for him to know you’re a keeper? Here are 5 tips:

make me work for it

If he’s a gamer, rich and handsome and successful, he’s used to women going out of their way to have him. To be a successful one man player, an easy catch is no fun at all. Let him ask you out three times before you can fit him into your busy schedule. If he doesn’t believe it, you offer to show him your schedule and this will make him back off with real respect. If he says that he wants to see it, tell him that you are not going out with a man who needs to see evidence and leave him immediately.

Big successful men like to go fishing. They will pay thousands of dollars for the chance to catch a Marlin and very rarely get a connection, but they will go again and again for the thrill of the catch. If you’re going to thrill a man who can have any lady in the room, you have to be that lady who will say no to him three times.

have good times

When you have him on a date and he is very happy to be with you, tell him that you want to go exploring with him. Have about ten things that you want to try and experience in your city and tell him that you want to share them with him. When you do these special and romantic things with him, he will really love to do great things with you.

He will remember the fun stuff and you will be a part of that memory. You see that you want to be on his mind much, much more than any other woman he knows. Remember that women shamelessly throw themselves at your man, but many of them have been boring dates. You are the one who has raised the bar for him.

give him some space

It is vital that you give your man space so that he has enough time away from you so that he can think about you and miss you. If you move in with him or are always with him, he will never know how much he loves you, since he has never had the chance to be apart from you.

You have to show that you are a good part of his life, but allow him to be busy and be the man he was before he met you. He has to maintain his identity but he also wants to have you as part of his world.

Being busy and unavailable to him also makes you an attractive property for him and very different from the women who have suffocated him in the past.

Show him that he is an important part of your life.

If you have amazing girlfriends, be sure to invite him to a night out with all of them. Let him see that you are important to him and that your friends can be his friends too and that you are proud of him. If you have people you love at work, invite them to dinners and staff meetings. Show him that he is part of your world and a special part of it.

Take as much time as you can before having sex with him.

As a Christian, I would never have sex with a lady outside of marriage. If you have the courage to tell him that you promised yourself that you will not have sex with a man until he marries you, this will really impress a man who cares for you. If you have been dating and he has fallen in love with you, a real man will honor this and he will consider marrying you.

If you think sex outside of marriage is healthy, as most people do these days, do it a few months before you have sex with the man. In this way they will know that you are not easy to get and that you do not give yourself to just anyone.

Either is a hand you should play.

I hope this is informative for you.