In life, when we are faced with a bad situation, there are actually two outcomes.

The first result is obviously negative since it is a bad situation and we can feel distressed or emotionally affected by it. This is a result set by fate: being at the wrong time and in the wrong place. We cannot undo what has happened to us.

However, the result of the second result depends on our thoughts, words and actions. Is not fixed. In fact, we can choose the outcome in our favor. This is destiny in the making and we have the power to make the best of the situation. And the power we have is over our emotion.

Depending on the situation, our emotions can manifest in various ways through our words and actions.

If it’s anger over a misunderstanding, the temperamental type verbally lashes out at people they perceive have done them wrong. The words they use can be hurtful to the other party as they let their emotions get the best of them. They lose their sense of control and, as a result, make the situation worse. Physical altercations can ensure. This is the second result and it comes quickly.

If it is a disappointment for something they did not achieve, they may be conditioned by their lack of ability and perceive themselves as unworthy and unworthy. Such self-destructive thoughts will break your spirit and make you lose confidence in anything you do. If they let such thoughts get out of control, they will be filled with pessimism and have a cynical view of the future. This is the second result and it is slow but insidious.

Whatever it is, we must remain calm and control our emotions. A bad situation can only get worse if we let the emotion out. A calm state of mind and equanimity will help us to think and act better, making the second result positive, either immediate or later.

Be aware of our thoughts, words and actions as they can create results that can be detrimental to us in any negative situation. The second result can be worse than the first if we don’t learn to control our emotions and reduce our losses. Our emotion is controllable and we must subjugate it to our conscious mind through conscious effort. This is not easy to do, as our emotions are deeply embedded in our subconscious mind and wait to pounce on us whenever triggered by some external stimulus. Our reactions come from our emotion that pushes us to say or do things without thinking about the consequences. Our subconscious mind is much quicker to react to any given situation compared to our conscious mind. This is due to our emotion.

The only way we can think faster than our emotion is by consciously knowing that with every situation, there are two outcomes. The first is destiny: things happen for a reason and the second is destiny: we can choose our response.

The Four Pillars of Destiny, a branch of Chinese Astrology, teaches us the difference between luck and destiny. By choosing our responses based on rational minds, we have the power to decide how the second outcome will turn out in any given situation. To create your own destiny, you need to know your useful items and useful Gods based on your birth chart. Visit us at bazidestiny.yolasite.com.