First, I would like to mention that each item listed below is in no particular order. They are all essential elements of being a good husband or boyfriend.

1. Pay attention to your woman. This means undivided attention. Include eye contact and verbal cues to let her know that you are listening.

2. Be a good listener. That means really listening to what you are saying, because you may bring the subject up again. Also, if the topic is about you, you need to see if you can fix / resolve any issues / issues you are referring to.

3. Pamper your wife. By pampering I mean running your bath water (you can bathe it, but some women don’t like it to go to waste), paying for your nails and hair. (These are just a few examples, creativity is the key).

4. Write small notes and leave them in common areas where you will see them. The notes should be compliments or cute messages for her (ie I love you, you are beautiful, have a nice day, etc.). You can also send text messages that will have the same effect. Love letters are great. And if you have that artistic side, write poems.

5. Buy him gifts. The size and cost of gifts are not important components, unless you are materialistic. But random gifts are agents that turn heads, showing her that you love her and care. Plus, it will make her feel special and appreciated.

6. Get your wife out. Each woman is different in what she likes, but some examples would be: dinners, lounge, dances, cinema, museums, festivals, etc.

7. Cook for your wife. In general, the woman makes most of the food, if not all. So sometimes it would be a relief and a surprise to cook for her. You don’t have to be a chef, you can prepare simple meals like breakfast in bed or meals that are already prepared and that just need to be heated. However, if you use meals that are already made, I suggest that you make the dining room table and light some candles to make it more romantic or attractive.

8. Must participate in chores around the house. However, only do what you are capable of, do not do something that you are going to spoil. Some easy tasks would be vacuuming, serving, or taking out the trash. Try to make these things a regular routine so she doesn’t have to do them.

9. ** THIS IS BIG ** Avoid looking at other women in front of your woman. This is commonly perceived as disrespectful. Also, it can affect your self-esteem or self-image. You may think that you are not attracted to it. To help you in this action, do not look at other women when your woman is not around. This allows you to practice not looking. It is common for men to see each other out of habit.

10. * THIS IS ANOTHER BIG * Control your inner urges. Be self-disciplined and able to retrain your inner feelings for action. Your hormones. This will help her not to get angry and show it when she is not in the mood. Which in turn will avoid conflicts.

11. As a man, you should be able to admit when you’re wrong. This should be self explanatory.

12. You must commit to resolving differences. Solutions to problems help keep the peace. If the issues are not resolved, they will continue to emerge as a topic of discussion / discussion.

13. Finally, remember that love is a series of actions such as: patience, tolerance, endurance, sacrifice, etc. Love also emits a by-product or side effect that is an emotional feeling. Many people mistake the emotional side effect / feeling for love. For more definitions of love, see your spiritual or religious manuals / books (i.e. the Bible).

In closing, I believe that if you apply these simple 13 elements to your relationship, you will make a great husband or boyfriend. Love is the most important element, because when you love someone it will be easier to implement the other elements. Thanks for reading and I wish you the best.