Coming home alone after a night out is not that much fun. You went to several different bars, each one a great place to meet a girl, dance, and then take her back to your place. You met and talked to several beautiful women and one was even a stunner. They seemed to be with you, so why do you come home alone?

If this continues, he will wake up alone most mornings. You really don’t understand why this happens. I mean, after all, you’re a nice guy and you should be able to get a good girl, or not so good girl, back into your house. Instead, you see all the bad boys treating the girls like trash and then taking them home. It would be nice if you could make your way into bed with a girl like them. What do they know that you don’t?

The list of ways to get a girl into bed with you is long. Here are three secrets you need to know and use. If she can use these three techniques correctly, she’ll have women eating out of her hand and begging her to take them home. These are the ways the “bad guys” get the girl while you, as the good guy, don’t.

treat her badly

Now I don’t mean treat her really bad. You have to understand that deep down women are emotional creatures. You have to learn to give him a lot of emotions. This is where the “good guys” go wrong. You can’t just make her feel good. You need to do more than make her laugh. You have to make her go through the full range of emotions. You need to make them feel happy, sad and angry. She needs to feel intrigued and connected to you.

It’s good when he laughs, but don’t stop there. Make fun of her. Call her by her names, though nothing too bad. You want it to get hot. That’s when she starts touching you. When she does, push her away, gently of course. When she starts insulting you, you know she’s working. Whatever you do, don’t give up. Don’t say “she was joking”. Let it be and don’t regret it. You are now a third of the way down the driveway.

Don’t be logical

If you’ve done what you’re supposed to do, now she’s very excited. She will likely go from being happy and laughing to getting upset and hitting you. This is good. Now comes the complicated part. She is going to test you. She will try to be logical with you. She’s going to try to find out what your game is. She will hear questions like “Are you a gamer?” or “I bet you say this to all the girls.”

Don’t give up trying to come up with a logical answer. When you try to answer logically, women will turn off. It sounds ridiculous, but it’s the truth. They become logical, but if you try to answer them seriously, they lose interest.

20 questions

This is the final stage. Once you pass this one, she is yours. She is going to ask you questions. I have never met a woman who did not do this. I think it’s built into her psyche. She is attracted to you, but she doesn’t know anything about you. Questions are her way of learning more about you. You have to open here and try to form a connection. The good news is that you can do the same. Ask him questions and look for the things you have in common. This will help her form a deeper bond with you. She needs to feel that this is real, so you are vulnerable. Make it up if you have to. A woman wants to know that you are not perfect.