If we lived in a world where people couldn’t lie or hide their feelings, this article wouldn’t be necessary. Although I have yet to figure out the formula in all my years of working as a psychotherapist, how to read someone’s mind. However, the closest thing I’ve found to reading someone’s mind is reading their eyes.

How to know that a girl likes you? Read her eyes.

First let me explain briefly. The ability to lie or hide your feelings is a conscious response. Your mind makes the decision to hide or manipulate the truth and you proceed to do so. However, there are unconscious responses that the body makes to certain stimuli. Unconscious, which means they are out of our control no matter how hard we try. An example of this is that if you get scared, your heart starts racing.

As an automatic unconscious response to certain events and stimuli, the eyes also respond. Here’s how to read eyes to find out how a girl is feeling and if she likes you and is interested in you.

There are two ways you can employ this technique.

The first way to meet a girl like you. – when you see a girl for the first time and she looks at you for the first time, she will do what everyone else does. She will look at your face first. It is a natural and automatic response that we all make. However, if she is attracted to you, the next thing you will see is her eyes traveling downward. If she is not attracted to you, she will just look away. The reason this happens is that when the girl first looks at you, if she is attracted to you, the natural response is to want to take in more, so when her eyes travel down, what she is doing is observing the rest. of you. She liked what she saw in your face, so now she’s looking at your body, the way you dress, the way you move, even the way you walk if you’re walking. So if when you look at a girl for the first time after she looks at your face, if you see her eyes scroll down, that’s a strong telltale sign that you can approach her.

The second way to know that a girl likes you – use this technique if you are closer to the girl, say within 5 feet of her. An example of this is if you’re in a nightclub, she’s sitting on a stool at the bar and you can sit on a stool next to her to get really close to her so you can see her eyes up close to her. Get close to her and do or say something to make her look at you. Maybe for example just say hello. As soon as she turns to look at you, she looks directly into her eyes and pays close attention to her pupils. Right after she looks at you, if you see them getting bigger, it means that she is interested and attracted to you. Again, this is an automatic unconscious response that she cannot control. Generally speaking, her eyes widen or dilate for one of two reasons. It is a physical response to lower light levels. Her pupils enlarge to let in more light and improve vision. The other reason is that the brain of the person whose eyes are dilating wants to take in more information. So if when the girl looks at you her eyes widen it is because she likes what she sees and she wants to absorb more information about you. For this technique to be most effective, you should use it in an area where the lighting is not dim, so you know that her eyes are not dilated from low light levels.

Do you want to know if a girl wants you to kiss her? Take a quick look at The Art of Approaching.