Getting back with your ex boyfriend is not always as easy as it seems. You may be feeling defeated at this point, you texted him, called him, and even let him sleep with you over and over again hoping that would seal the deal.

You can’t understand why things just don’t work. You just need something easy, something magical that you can do to get him back for good.

What is the secret solution?

For some people, magic is something that is rarely understood and impossible to explain. For others magic can be a simple trick where the hand moves faster than the eye.

No matter what your definition of magic is, getting your ex boyfriend back doesn’t involve any Harry Potter business.

However, some magic words can certainly do the trick.

bim

Bim is the fun and exciting breath of fresh air required to help any relationship survive for long periods of time. What kind of Bim did your previous relationship have? Everything was going well and suddenly it fell apart?

GOLD

Did you notice that everything was going downhill steadily for the last two weeks or so? When was the last time you had a romantic dinner together? When was the last time you had passionate sex?

So how do you recover the “Bim” after the fact?

Just add the Bim to your life right now. Improve your image a little. Put some shine on your wardrobe (buy some new clothes), raise your head and be confident.

Become the exciting and active woman you were the first day you met. Just think about it, once he hears how great you look from his mutual friends, he’ll go crazy wanting to know what’s going on with you.

bam

Bam involves getting in the best shape possible. It doesn’t matter if you lose weight or just tone your body. Focus on taking good care of yourself and making a noticeable change. Be sure to cut calories and drink plenty of water to stay well and hydrated.

All of these things are extremely necessary because you want more than anything to appear happy and healthy when you come across your ex boyfriend.

Boom

Boom means staying busy and positive without it. It’s not moving on and letting it go because the goal is still to get it back. This technique will really make him realize how much he misses and needs you.

Everyone knows that relationships aren’t easy, but neither is going through a breakup. Give the guy a chance to see that you are doing well without him and he will most likely make the first attempt at getting back with you.

THAT is the real magic of getting your boyfriend back, you convince him that he is the one who wanted the reconciliation to happen.

Those are the basic steps, now of course there is much more. For the rest of the steps that will help tie everything together, you need to check one more thing.

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