Personality development is a process that starts from childhood, until you become a young individual when the pattern of your character is established. The process is influenced by hereditary, biological, environmental, social and situational factors, so each one develops a unique personality. It depends on the way an individual reacts and interacts with others.

Most of us are aware of the fact that the right and left hemispheres of the brain are responsible for different types of physical and emotional functions. Researchers are increasingly interested in discovering the relationship between the degree of development of brain cells and their influence on the personality of a certain individual. The question arises, are the mind and the body separate entities or is the mind simply a function of the physical being?

A person’s physical appearance has an undue effect on one’s personality. Being a tall person can be an advantage, while a short person has to make up for their lack of height and sometimes even compromise. I do not want to say that tall people have a better personality, but society has its own influence in creating image perception, and mind you, although physique is a component of personality, it is purely determined by hereditary factors and not the whole personality. the characteristics are determined by hereditary and biological factors.

So what needs to be done to bring wholeness to your personality? Let me rephrase the question. What according to you is a nice personality?

• A perfectly groomed individual
• A handsome man, someone like Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt (I personally like both)
• A culture fanatic
• a social person
• a family man
• a well educated person
• soft-spoken
• Aggressive

Well, what I personally feel is that we start to like people who possess the characteristics that we are not gifted with or that we do not dare to develop for some psychological or social reason. You try to identify with that person by the perception of the image that has a “halo effect”. The human personality develops stage by stage and is a multidimensional process from immaturity to maturity, moving along a continuum.

Personality is a relative term, there is no pre-made template for a complete personality. Wherever there is an interlude of social and environmental factors, personality cannot be defined, it can only be determined. Only when the primitive and biological impulses that are present in each individual are unleashed in a socially approved way, is society said to be in order. Society and culture also play an important role in personality development. Cognitive perception and self-integration also make a person’s personality a significant “whole”.

The understanding of the “I” that the person conceives of himself or strives to be and the “I”, the way the person seems to be or thinks he appears to others, are completely different. This is where most of our personality problems begin. Leaders are always open in their approach, that’s where their success lies. There is no clash of interests between the “me” and the “I”, so there is no hypocrisy in their behavior either. The consistency of your behavior is very important in social circles.

Many family lives are torn apart after long years of marriage as there is no basic understanding and their lives are bound by their children or their work serves as an escape or outlet. Expressing yourself in the right way, I am talking about both your advantages and disadvantages, even before getting married saves you a lot of misfortune, pain and emotional trauma.

The structure of your personality is determined by your family, friends, school, peers, peers, and even unfamiliar faces that you come across in your day to day. Understanding yourself is not such a complex process since each individual has the ability to qualify himself. When you make a mistake, immediately your conscience rises up like a school teacher and warns you. So developing a healthy personality is in your own hands, it is not difficult at all if you have self-control and the power to be inspired by great personalities. In most countries, prisoners receive personality training so that they realize where they went wrong and how to improve and be lifted to a higher level of existence in terms of social and interpersonal relationships.

After reaching all the levels that satisfy you, you have to ask yourself “What’s next?” to become a better person in all aspects of life that serve as a passport to the next level of achievement. There is no zenith when it comes to personality development and learning. The process never ends and the experience is worth a try.