At a recent television symposium on sex-related issues, a young participant posed the question to the moderator: “Sir, some people say that masturbation is not good for your health. Please let me know, sir.” The presiding officer stated, “There is no harm associated with masturbation.” That said, he went on to list some ‘advantages’ of masturbation and concluded his talk by saying that masturbation, if not done frequently, would not cause harm, but would be good for health. He concluded by saying that masturbation is the best alternative to sex with a partner because it carries no risk of HIV. He had strong objections to that theory. I sincerely hope that my objections will not go unnoticed, and therefore I am writing this article for the benefit of young people. A brief reference to Homosexual sex is also made.

SEX is the greatest gift that Nature has given to all living beings.

All ‘living’ beings only yearn to have sexual intercourse with a partner belonging to the opposite sex. In the case of animal beings, only one sexual partner will be very dominant over the other. Most male partners dominate the female ones, as in the case of oxen, cats, dogs, etc. But in the case of human beings, the situation is different. Here, the woman is equally interested in sex, sometimes more dominantly, compared to the male partner.

Civilized society has established certain very difficult rules for human sex, and this is precisely the reason why women are subjected to harsher conditions than their counterparts. Therefore, in the case of human beings, the man has more responsibility in satisfying the sexual needs of the female partner.

What is sex?

The sexual instinct begins from childhood itself. Girls like to see the male organs, touch them and also lick them. I have also seen some boys describing the internal parts of the women, sometimes also their blood relatives, that they observed while they bathed or changed their underwear. The height of these habits is that if the parents have sex in the same bedroom where the child is supposed to sleep (in India, this practice is common), the children will pretend to sleep and watch their parents’ sexual act. and they will describe it to you. friends in detail the next day.

Once the boy becomes an adult, he likes to see the girls, talk to them, play hide-and-seek. As they play, they will touch their secret parts, kiss them and have sexual pleasure. Once puberty is reached, the boy or girl will have certain mysterious feelings that he or she will not be able to explain.

In ancient times, marriages took place long before puberty, and therefore sex would not have been a problem because once puberty was reached, they were allowed to have intercourse.

But today the minimum age of a bride or groom in common practice is 26 years. So, any young person, be it a boy or a girl, has to wait 10-12 years after reaching puberty.

They naturally turn to alternative methods for sexual pleasure. If they have enough money they go to prostitutes and if they don’t they resort to masturbation and if they have some company and male loneliness they resort to homosexuality. This practice is also widely found in girls and they are called lesbians.

In this article, we are dealing with men only because the man has more responsibility to satisfy the partner.

MASTURBATION means manual stimulation of the genital organs, by one’s own effort or with the help of another to reach orgasm, which is also known as onanism. So said the leading guest scholar, who was a self-proclaimed sex consultant: “It’s not dangerous to health. In fact, it’s necessary to reduce sexual tension and desire.” The only argument from him more than him was from him: “it is good to indulge in masturbation as it will reduce sexual offenses like rape”. The third and final advantage, according to him, was: “it won’t spread HIV because it’s not about spreading the virus.” when no other partner is involved who can pass blood-related fluids.”

When a young man asked him, “Sir, can I masturbate tonight, sir?” he gave the answer in a casual manner, “why tonight? You can enjoy masturbation the same day after noon as soon as you return home” amidst the audience’s laughter.

How does this habit start?

In most cases, this habit starts as an accident. When a teenager is in the stage of peak puberty, he is affected by some unknown feelings that he cannot describe. He is very happy to touch the male organs and often massages them. One fine day, he would discover that he has an orgasm due to the ejaculation of semen. His pleasure knows no bounds as he has gained a totally new sensation that he had not imagined until now. Then he waits for another opportunity to masturbate, and over time it becomes a regular habit. The bad company of friends makes the process very fast. Reading pornographic books, watching pornographic television programs makes one more and more indulge in this bad habit.

What are the evils of masturbation?

Over time, you find that the pleasure will gradually lessen and eventually give no pleasure at all. She will also lose her virility. She would face premature ejaculation leaving the female partner totally unsatisfied. Her reproductive capacity will come to an end as soon as possible. He could have children as the previous speaker assures, but his married life would be totally useless. His wife, who has more sexual desire as described above, will be totally upset and on several occasions such dissatisfied women will become disloyal to their conjugal partners.

Psychologically you will also lose all your confidence. He will not be able to compete with anyone either in office or in the family. In short, he would be pretty much a dead man, showing some talents on the outside but total weakness on the inside. I know a computer engineer who is well educated, handsome and well versed in computer applications but very weak in sexual activity. This article is intended for young people like him.

Homosexual sex has all of the above evils plus the fact that partners are exposed to the risk of HIV infection. In fact, the origin of HIV is reported to start only with homosexual sex. In so many countries homosexual sex is legalized and therefore it is advisable to stop criticizing except to point out the physical, medical and psychological adversities listed above.

What are the ways and means to avoid masturbation?

Nature has given the pleasure of sex mainly for the reproduction of species that can only be obtained through a proper relationship with the opposite sex. But today, due to the population explosion, various methods of stopping reproduction, such as condoms, birth control drugs, and vasectomy procedures, have become fashionable. In general, there is a sharp decline in the birth rate. This may be an act of Nature to maintain its balance. But people have to maintain interest and participation in marital sex to produce healthy children. At least the children who come to Earth by birth must be healthy and strong.

From an early age, sons must receive adequate training in moral education. Parents should exercise control to prevent their children from watching pornographic movies and reading pornographic literature. They should talk freely with their children about sexual matters. Schools can include sex education in their curriculum.

There is no need to separate girls from boys (as in some parts of India). They must be allowed to move freely, of course under the supervision of parents and teachers.

Training in moral education must be accompanied by training in Yoga and meditation. They must also be trained to live in groups that have high moral values. Parents should be careful to marry off their wards at the right age when their sexual desire is at its peak. Your interest in sex should also be a factor in addition to other considerations such as education, work, and earning capacity.

Artificial sexual pleasure is a great threat that threatens the future of today’s youth. They must take the necessary measures against this practice. This will prevent any possible catastrophe at a future date.