Permanent male chastity is one of the most common fantasies I get emails about.

What it literally means is that these men have a fantasy of giving up their right to orgasm to their wives, with the understanding that she is never will allow them to return to orgasm.

Permanent Male Chastity – Why would a man want it?

Unfortunately, this is not an easy question to answer, simply because if you don’t share the desire for yourself, then it will be so foreign to you that it will seem absurd.

In fact, many men email me and say that while they love long-term orgasm denial, even for many months and even years, the idea of ​​permanent orgasm denial would be completely unacceptable.

If you can imagine trying to describe the color blue to a blind man, you will begin to see what I mean.

That said, I really don’t think it’s that hard to understand or at least accept in principle, which means there are some reasonable arguments men and women can make to at least make it a reasonable aspiration for couples interested in looking for a strict male gender. chastity lifestyle.

Tea first The argument is that most people are solipsists when it comes to…pretty much everything.

In other words, they assume because they If you don’t like something, then no one is going to like it. Some time ago in a forum dedicated to relationships, there was a discussion about male chastity and orgasm denial and it seemed impossible for the women on the forum to understand the idea that it has nothing to do with trust, insecurity or control. . per se absolutely.

They couldn’t see how it could be pleasurable for a man, therefore no one else can see that it is pleasurable, including the men themselves.

Tea second The argument is that many men see the trade-off between not having an orgasm and the pleasure it brings as worthwhile.

Men who experience long-term orgasm denial (including my own husband, John, who has gone up to a full year between orgasms so far) tell me that the emotional and physical sensations they experience are best described as “permanently in the middle of orgasm path.

Viewed like this, I can begin to see why some men might enjoy it.

And the third The argument is that many men take intense satisfaction in knowing that no matter what they do, they can never earn or “earn” an orgasm, thus leaving them completely free to focus on their wives’ sexual satisfaction and pleasure.

It is complete submission and surrender to the will of their wives when it comes to their orgasms. Many men find that concept erotic in itself.

Again, this is a difficult question to understand, but it is a common argument that I often hear from permanently chaste men.

But with all this it is important to understand, not No means the man is unique.

This is one of the big mistakes.

With permanent orgasm denial it becomes even plus important and necessary for the man to be regularly and frequently teased and denied, brought to the very brink of orgasm but never allowed to cross that line.

This is what keeps it fresh and exciting for both of you.

So don’t dismiss the idea of ​​permanent male chastity and orgasm denial out of hand. For many couples it is perhaps the best and even unavoidable answer.